I'm thinking about beginning to connect with Hodr, but I want to know the experiences of others, has anyone here ever worked with him enough to tell me what he likes, how he acts? There's just so little material on him, I'm a bit lost.
Well, since there is little history of Him, get to know him! It can be a bit hard to not expect on what is going to happen, but that's the fun of it, I would say. A new surprise around the corner. Good or bad. Experience Him yourself.
I don't have first hand experience of Hodr's personality, but I would keep in mind things about him being blind and then paying for his brother's death, so if you have an altar for Hodr, I probably wouldn't put it next to an altar for Loki.
When I read about Hodr, I had the impression he was excited to be participating in an event he couldn't do otherwise, and that he felt sorrow and possibly guilt and abandonment. I honestly just want to hug the dude. He seemed to give off a quiet, possibly meek, and kind personality.