Ok.I will let him go.I will try to be just his best friend.but there was a moment he said that he went to a wrong direction and took me there as well.so he said that now we cant be friends any more, right? Because he said that he feels like a criminal,he got a big regret that he D-tracked me. But i felt that something is wrong with him... Because he was the man of morals respect love care and much more.. if i would be there, with him in the same country.. it would be easy for to find out what it is?! I m sure theres something else,because he just said that he plays in reality and fly away.he broke back years ago so he started partying and all.i felt like he was trying to prove me that he is not good guy.... I dont know why doesnt he think that i know him very well.it makes me curious..as i m not in the same country :(
Re: my best friend and love By: ZetaStorm / Novice
Post # 12 Jan 10, 2015
Give him some space. Sounds like he has some stuff to figure out. And for yourself, try some meditation when the going gets tough. It really helps to re-focus on what's important.
Re: my best friend and love By: sunshinerain / Beginner
Post # 13 Jan 10, 2015
dear... i had this problem myself so i know it hurts
theres a saying me and my friends made a bit ago- "true love is your trusting best friend, your protective brother, and your loving partner. but a true enemy can be formed the same way"
this is delicate... you have to be carful! trust your insticts, every guy is different, so its hard to help
What should i do now ? Should i talk to him ? I dont want to loose him.I cant meet him as i m in another country.i know theres something else.which made him to do this to me . I m sure there is something else.
Re: my best friend and love By: sunshinerain / Beginner
Post # 16 Jan 11, 2015
well... men can be reserved. sit down with him, have a heart to heart. tell him exactly how you feel. and dont yell or fight judge or get mad. he needs to explain when hes ready and as much as he is able
you have to feel a bit sorry for him. i bet he doesn't want to lose someone as amazing as you :) most guys will never do that unless something horrible happens
Re: my best friend and love By: sunshinerain / Beginner
Post # 18 Jan 12, 2015
long distance! those are hard! :(
maybe skype? dont push too hard, but enough... or... try the forget return trick. act normal, and then when he forgets, ask him your relationship or something like that
Guys can be messed up :( If it has gotten to this point, I would suggest you leave him alone and try to focus on healing yourself. He seems to have made a choice.