That's a divination I posted to see how they feel for you. Meditate and focus on the question in your mind. Make sure you close all doors and windows and keep away from any fans or vents as these could effect the flame. Take this as a guide to calm your nerves, but remember nothing is certain in life, sometimes you need to enjoy the experience. Even if it ends in heartbreak it was everything you wanted at one point in your life. Don't be afraid to experience life.