Buy a Plane ticket
You'll need to cast it twice, once for you and once for your cousin. Cast it simultaneously, if you want to travel together.
Just teasing, of course... In all seriousness though, what barriers are holding you back, that have kept you from just going where you want to go?
Sounds to me like it's time to stop trying to "Attract" something you already want, remove the barriers, and *Create* your own opportunities.