Hi everyone! I need to know which type of spell I should do for my situation. Recently a wonderful man has come into my life. He is everything I've ever wanted. But he is recently divorced, and has been through a lot with his ex wife (she left him, took kids, money, moved in with another man--and is marrying him). It's been a few months, so I assume moving on would be appropriate now. We click so well, he tells me he is his saving grace, we laugh, and have a great time. Problem is, I feel there is a 'block' so to speak. Maybe it's distrust, or the inability to open up a little more. It's definitely more than a friendship tho, since we are both not seeing anyone else. But I want an official relationship...it's been 4 months of this "friend zoned love limbo." So I need a little "oomph" spell, get the relationship ball going, get him out of his rut and get the lines of communication going. I suggested being together way too early in the relationship and I know it scared him in the beginning (my mistake--I got a little over zealous) and I'm not suggesting that again!! I know that you're not suppose to do a spell on a particular person, but what if you know it's right, and in all honesty, I really just want our love to grow more.
my advise, invite him to ur home, turn off lights, lite a candle or incence, and watch a romance movie, lay ur head on his lap. it is subtle yet a real hint u want something more. if he dont respond dont be discuraged, means he is still healing
I'm opting for giving it time as well. I'm assuming the guy is going through heck in family court as she is likely going for child support. If you respect his issues and show him your around and interested, when he's ready, he will let you know. He knows your interested. :)