I wanted to say that magic isn't always great for all things, because, as you see, it has had its consequenses. Anyways, the wise are content with what the gods give them, fate is fickle, one second you may have 2 men swooning for you, next you'll only have one. Let the magic work itself out. But if you don't take my advice, there are spells here which can take a couple further apart. Also, love should not be reversed, it messes with nature, and free will, love is free to give, free to take, but whether they want to give and you want to take is another matter entirely up to free will.