What have you been studying for three years? like any path?You can try any of these spells those are NOT fluffy(those which claim to turn you into something). Magick comes from nature.and i highly suggest you to try the basics of magick(link on my profile). but as you start researching, you will find that different paths have different basics.Also, starting with healing and protection spells could be a better way. Please do not mess with others free will by using love spells. love truly.
Hope this helps!