Personally i believe that good and bad are a matter of opinion, and those opinions vary from person to person. So i don't really believein it as an actual thing.
To tell if a spell is bad for you or bad to use, maybe ask yourself how you would feel finding out someone used that kind if spell in you. Money spells are not necessarily bad. You just have to be specific when deciding where you want the money to come from (a rich guy drops some change, win the lottery, etc). Bringing a friend closer spell wouldn't necessarily be bad, it could just make it easier to be happy around, and have fun with, that person. I can't say for sure about your daughter respecting you though. Daughters seem to like disrespecting parents. In some cases they don't know how to express themself and it just comes out wrong. Maybe just sit her down and just talk things through, no yelling. Casting a spell (i don't know if that would be good or bad) may not be effective, she has her own energy already working against you.
As long as your spell is not controlling don't see it as interfering with free will. Like instead of saying "she is going to spend more time with me" it could say "bring her more opportunities to spend time with me." That way its a little bit of a help, but she can still choose. Did that help?