You can pay someone to cast for you, we have many such offers in our advertisement section, though I would not recommend such as I personally feel they are, for the most part, scams. You may also cast for yourself, though to have success you will have to work long and hard to become proficient in the craft. I will try to refrain from giving you a full blown lecture on the hypocrisy of freeing this woman from the guy who is "just using her" only to bind her against her will magically to you....at least she chose the other guy herself. How do you think she would feel if she were aware that you want to break up her current relationship with the man of her choosing and force her magically to be in one with you? Dont fool yourself that what you are feeling is love, and if it is you have a really poor way of expressing it. To you love must be selfish, inconsiderate and disrespectful, because your grand plan is all those things. Do as you will, but at least be honest about your motivations. Yours are greed and selfishness, dont try to rationalize it as "for her own good" and call it love. You want her, she is with another and you want to take her from him. Your motivations are selfish, and you are being inconsiderate of her wishes (she chose him, not you) and you have no respect for her decisions or free will.