I am wondering if I could solicit some help from the community. I have a sticky love situation. I have been involved with a man for 6 years. He is a victim of sexual abuse in his childhood years and that abuse has surfaced as a barrier to our relationship. He gets flashbacks of sexual abuse when he has contact or even sexual thoughts about me. He recently broke up with me for this reason. Flashbacks daily is not a good human condition. For example. I was showing him a bruise high on my leg today and lifted my long pants to show him. Just the sight of my full thigh made him uncomfortable. We both admit that we love each other, but the struggle is too hard. I have used a simple sugar spell on him and think it is working, in that he feels so much love for me. He even asked if I have some kind of love potion!!! I am scared to try any spells to make him have desire for only me as I am reluctant to complicate his issues. I wish to help him heal so that we could have a chance to move forward. The priority here would be to:
Eliminate negative issues surrounding his abuse and its relation to our sexual relationship.
Gain his feelings of desire for me alone without the flashbacks. (there is a girl trying to move in on him)
Bring him back to our relationship.
Any help on strategies with spells will be greatly appreciated.