Thank you all for your advice and suggestions. Him and I have kids together so I will fight tooth and nail to get our family back together. Him and I have gotten very close this past week yet he still has not ended things with her, yet that is..I guess I should just give it time but if anyone has ever been in love with someone who is no longer yours, you know the torture it is, every minute without them seems like years. I guess I am just impatient.
For the vinegar spell what would I do, put a picture of the two of them in the bottle? Put it in the river?