im new as well. as a mom-there are some things you can do, what is his body language when he talks, this includes facial expressions-looking down and to the right is lying, up and to the left is remembering, unless he looks you in the eye. before casting any spell for truth you must stay focused-this includes your chakras, make sure spells are free fro karmic reprecussions, and they should not interfere with free will. know yourself completely, what you want, don't want from the spell and be specific...writing your own spells achieve better results. i hope this helps you. stay safe and blessed be.