Hi all, I created a honey jar for a man I met. I didn't use the come to me oil right away because I ordered it through the mail. I started to use them and now I have several different men all interested in me (out of nowhere) except my target. Because of this, I didn't burn the candles on Monday and Wednesday like I usually do. Should I continue burning the candles even though it seems to be attracting other men? I'm not sure what steps to take from here. Thank you in advance for you help!
It seems to me like many factors can influence this.
Did you make a petition, if so, how did you make it. Did you cross your target's name with your own? If so, did you place it in the Honey Jar along with other love drawing herbs? What color candle did you burn? Red, Pink, or White? Did you tell this person to come to you, or just men to come to you?
I did cross our names. If I remember correctly the petition also had his name in the center with "want me" written around it in a circle. I also used our pictures but didn't use other herbs other than honey. I have been burning red candles with his name and the petition phrase inscribed three times around and run the oil on before I do it. I had spoken to someone prior to doing this and he said it might "sweeten" other men to me but I'm not kidding within a week of using it, I've had three different men kind of pop up out of the blue pursuing me...all except my target! What do you suggest I do? Please let me now if you need any other information. Thanks!
And yes the petition is in the honey jar with an individual picture of both me and him facing each other (I put honey between those pictures too) with our names on the back of the pictures (without our birthdays---I was unsure of the exact date of his so I chose not to add that in).
Sorry for the numerous posts but i am trying to give as much information as possible: everytime I light the candle, I pray over it specifically for him and repeat his name and envision him in my head. I also turn off my phone and TV as to not distract from my praying and meditation.
I would suggest you re-do the jar, and use a pink candle. If you don't have a pink one, use white, or red. You could scratch/carve his name into one side of the candle, and come to me on the other side, and anoint the candle with the Come to Me oil, make a petition by tearing a square of brown paper bag and writing his name 9 times in black, then cross it with your name 9 times in black. Then around it you can write Love Me, or Come to Me on it. Then stick this petition, along with any other love herbs in it. Then burn the candle you prepared earlier on top of it for seven days, switching them out with a newly prepared one when it burns out, and then burn it three times a week on Monday, Wednesday, and Friday. Keep doing that until it works.