So I'm new here and I'm not sure how to phrase this.
I haven't regularly practiced casting in a few years so I feel a bit rusty, but after a conversation with an old friend and a break up I have begun to try and reconnect with the things that have brought me comfort...such as magic.
Anywho my question is about love spells, but can apply to other more coercive magics. Recently my wonderful long distance boyfriend broke up with me. Repeatedly he has stated that he wished that he loved me like he used to (he loves me as his best friend but romantically he doesn't quite feel for me.)
This isn't a moral question...but even if he does not know about my casting would trying a love spell to reignite his passion for me be unfavorable or have an impact on the success rate?
If a person wants the same result as the caster does it matter? Does the spell in particular matter?