I'm going to assume he's a small child, from your statement here is that correct? Children don't understand that they are doing anything wrong or hurtful by poking fun at someone. They haven't yet grasped the concept, they have to learn as they grow. Ignore him and try not to let it get to you. Getting back at him isn't going to change anything or make the situation any better.
no he needs to learn he is a bully to anyone smaller then him and he picks fights all the time now hes making fun of me it has to stop and this will make him think what its like on the other side of things im putting im in my shoes
By trying to do that aren't you being just like him though? As the saying goes "It takes the bigger man to walk away." So, walk away and ignore him. He makes fun of you because he knows it bothers you, if you don't let him get to you he will go away. His opinion of you shouldn't matter.
Hexes and curses rarely work in such a specific way and typically inspire bad luck rather than a specific symptom. I can suggest though as others have that there may be a better path.
Even if you could do it tomorrow what would making him wet the bed truly accomplish? He wouldn't be put in your shoes until someone else made fun of him, namely you. In that event not only have you stooped to his level but you've caused it and have actually sunk much lower than he ever did.
I know it hurts to have people make fun of something that's completely out of your control but defiance is a much stronger action than revenge. I also appreciate this isn't what you want to hear right now, it's all well and good for us all to sit here preaching about how another's words shouldn't effect you and that's frankly a pile of rubbish. You can't stop insults from hurting you all you can do is hide the pain. In my experience though educating the bully is a much better and more permanent solution to taking revenge on them. That said it's often difficult to educate someone when they're ridiculing you so I'd try to call in outside help. I'd suggest having a serious talk with his mother it may be that she's dismissing it as childhood banter. If that doesn't work or isn't an option then perhaps talk to your own parents about it, perhaps they can have a talk with your aunt and in a round about way influence your cousin to understand a little better.
but doesnt he deserve it he made fun of so many peope older and younger he bets people up and neds to stop and if i do this he will and i wil stop it when he becomes better its not forever so please someone write the spell for me please i dont care what happens ut he needs to learn im doing it for his own good beter to learn now then later
Re: i need help
By: Nekoshema / Novice Feb 28, 2013
Post # 9
you should meditate, look inside yourself, figure out why you're wetting the bed.
if you want revenge on your cousin, while you shouldn't do it, there' revenge curses on the site you can find easily, though one to make him wet the bed i doubt it. 'bones of anger' is probably the mist common, or the 'you messed with a witch' curse. in either case, you need to work up your anger and hatred before you cast and focus it all upon your cousin. just think before you do, 'be careful what you wish for' as the saying goes.
You taking revenge will change nothing. Putting him in your place, even if it were possible, will not make him a better person. Someday he will learn that his actions are not beneficial to him. One day, he will wake up and realize nobody likes him because if what he's said to them, no one wants to be his friend because of the way he's treated them, and the people he has hurt will either be stronger and immune to him or have broken them down so much even he won't take pleasure from their misery. He will, one day, have to make the choice of whether this is the life he wants, or if he wants his life to change.
If you attempt to give him what he deserves, then you will only bring more anger and hate into the world and make things worse. You will either regret your decision at some point, or you will become just like him in the process, accomplishing nothing. I'm not advocating pacificism, few can just lie down and take a beating. You may defend yourself, but you must never take the offensive or else you will become his bully. Then he will redirect his anger and misery onto other people, because that's what a bully is. And so the cycle of suffering will continue until it is broken, by you.
I have a sibling who I haven't gotten along with in years, she berates and bullies me constantly no matter what I do and I can barely stand to be in the same room as her. I have given up all hope of ever having a relationship with her and I dream of the day I will leave home and never have to see her again. But no matter what, I have never and will never raise a hand against my sister. I have suffered so much under her, but not even she deserves to hurt as much as she has made me. The only reason she works so hard to make me feel horrible is because she feels horrible too, I will not do unto her what she has done to me because neither of us will benefit. The pain she's inflicted will not go away and she will not learn her lesson any faster. I don't like my own advice any more than you do, but I will follow it and pray that you do as well because we must rise above the pit our bullies have dug for themselves. And when they realize they can't climb out of it, we will be the ones to offer them help, because family is still family.