ok so a few days back i heard that once you do a binding or a hand-fasting the way to remove it is a parting so does any one know what is said and done during this parting ritual?
your help would be amazing
Generally, a parting is done as a ritual, but you can do one on your own.
The main idea is to visualize the bond between you two and then visualize it breaking. You can really do this in any manner - with a string to cut symbolizing your ties are severed. You could burn something that you feel symbolizes your connection to this person and that as it burns the connection is gone. There are other ways, but these are the ones I prefer...
Good luck in your endeavors!
For a Handparting, it is generally thought best to do it with the consent and presence of the other person(s) involved, or it isn't fully severed as the other person(s) are still lingering and hanging onto the bond.
If the other person doesn't consent and you feel it is best to part, make a declaration of the separation and, if you feel you must, shield yourself from the person(s). I'd avoid ending something badly to begin with, but not everything is all happy sunshine.