Well, one would look to their astrological element (for example, I am a Taurus, so my element would be Earth) but that is not the case. You can meditate and seek out the element you are connected to. This is much better than following your astrological element. The four elements are: Earth, Air, Fire, Water and depending on belief, there is a fifth element which is Spirit. You can be connected to all of the elements as well, not just one. Keep these points I have made in mind in order to find your element correctly.
(And keeping this between me and you~ I love your name~)