help from demon/spirit...

you may be use to people in the house, but it's different with a spirit/demon. i've dealt with spirits since i was a child, while 95% of the time i just shrug it off, every once and a while they can do something to make me jump. it can also get annoying, you trying to concentrate, or sleep, or whatever, and there's something running down the hallway, or talking, or moving things, and won't stop no matter how much you ask. [kind of sounds like having a kid though lol] you need to know what you're doing, it may sound cool to have someone with you at all times, but it can get annoying, scary sometimes. i'm not trying to upset you, i just want you to know there's a difference, and sometimes something you think would be cool, or you really want, turns out to be a nightmare.

like i said in the first post, research, but also work on chakra work, it can make it easier for you to sense spirits. keep in mind though, some people just can't see spirits, or can see spirits but not demons.

Are you calling to the demon because you think it more willing to help you then a guardian angel type or good spirit? Evaluate your motives and end goals, and ask your self what you have to offer the demon he does not already have? He will not work for free, and one way or another he will take his payment and then some. A good spirit, or angel type will work for free, but will not work in ways that bring harm to yourself or others, even if you do not see the harm coming they do. Try connecting with a deity. See if this can be the guidance you need. If you respect them, they may speak to you or through you.
Also the suggestion to use a familiar is a great one. Has a familiar animal presented itself to you yet? A cat, dog, bird, etc? They stand out from other animals, not only do they connect with you instantly, like they always knew you, but they also are more intelligent then other animals of the same species, I have found.
good luck, and be safe. So recap, evaluate motives, consider good spirits, connect with deities, and find your familiar.

I agree that demons aren't the best highly recommended spiritual beings to work with in such cases, however I'd like to make a simple point for educational purposes. Again, they indeed hypothetically speaking aren't the best spiritual beings to spiritually work with.

The thing is that people make these being spiritually awful in a magnificantly not inderstandable way. It's requesting the being's presence. They are intelligent enough to know that, and they are absolutely welcome to leave at any time. Sometimes a demon, once you have developed a connection to it, will even come to visit you if its own volition, according to what I've experienced through out the years..
Humans set themselves up. I think that even in fear, humans just like drama, enough to continue to tell themselves and others that what they're doing is dangerous. That leaks down through the generations and is added to by conservative faiths and spiritual practices that are based on fear. Energy is what you make it and what you expect it to be. If you like excitement enough to be afraid for it, then that's your choice. But, you won't advance until you open. (Again, I'm not directing this at anyone, I'm just sharing my opinion on humanity and why demons have been, well, demonized).

Beyond that I agree with all being said by people previously in this thread.

the reason i said demon is cuz i herd that they could be nice but i think i will 1st put a protection spell on my home then try to contact my home spirits then be happy!

on a nother note, i think that there are spirits in my home, cents i waz little i have been able to tell if some one walks in the room not by seeing or hearing but if there is some thing that walks into the room i get shivers down my spine and every thing goes a little bit more quiet and ive had that 'go off' like crazy cents we moved to my home is that weired?

It seems you are already possesed find out yourself first.

if you call upon a good demon that's good, I would suggest summoning either a good demon or your daimon, a daimon (sounds like daymon) is a demon that has been with you your whole life and perhaps has already helped you when you needed help or needed help with good or evil magick, a daimon is a demon that's like your gaurdian angel except that it's a demon, most demons or I would say at least half of them help to full fill your selfish desires, the desires of the flesh, or help you with good or evil magick, some demons has been considered evil but some can be good, but usually people use them the wrong way in my opinion and use it for black magick or for dark reasons or negativity, when working with a demon you must not feel evil feel positivity instead or nothing, but I suggest feeling good things instead of nothing, now a daimon can gaurd you can keep you safe, it can also full fill any desire or desires you want, if you wish to make offerings such as whiskey at the crossroads, or burn a dollar bill for money only one will do, or go down in a dimension in your mind during meditation you can ask it to do anything or to help you with stuff, a daimon or a good demon can help you with anything, also the dimension you go to is a dark dimension usually with little or no light except you can see your daimon or demon, your personal demon should look exactly like you except that it may have horns or bumps on its head that look like horns are underneath its forehead, usually they show you some way they are a demon, even if it's a demon tale, anyways tell the demon to do something for you and it will do it, and you should name your daimon, usually you would want to name your demon your name and to tell it I am you and you are me we think and say things at the same time and you are not allowed to possess me, and once you say that the demon will be with you and pretty much be you at the same time, also demons desire dedication and time, so summon the demon and keep telling it what you want and it should give it to you, also if you wish to offer it a piece of your bone in order for you to get something even if its a small splinter of your bone, then it will be thankful and greatful and it will give you anything you desire, also if you have a problem with a demon tell satan to make the demon do not do anything you don't want it to do, or pray to God to control the demon, with demons it's mostly about control, even if you have to ask satan to control it or pray to satan to make the demon do what you want it to do, satan is kind of one of the head honchos of demons, anyways there are many different demons, so whatever demon controls whatever power it controls you can get that power as well, and as for a spirit you can call upon your spirit guide in meditation, you can go through a gate in your mind filled with positive things like sun shine or grass with flowers and stuff pretty much your happy place, then summon and call upon your guides name and he or she will guide you, and the it doesn't have to be a gate it can be a arch way or whatever, just walk through it and feel the positive energy and power and feel the sunlight and smell the grass during your meditation and have anything there that makes you feel calm and safe, if you feel frustrated or nervous during meditation then just slowly come back to the room and open your eyes slowly and remind yourself you are back in the room and you should be fine. Anyways there's many ways to summon your guide during meditation. If you summon a demon you should also do a meditation. Anyways that's all for now good luck, and remember sometimes demons just want to work with people not all of them are evil or mischievous. One more thing if you summon an angel during meditation in your mind go to clouds that seem to circle around you with angels all around, call upon heaven or ask God to show you heaven then call upon your guardian angel during prayer to god or to the angel, then ask it for whatever you want, now angels usually full fill positive things, or to help you with problems in your life, and they also like to give you powers if you ask them or tell them to with authority, and do it for the greater good and nothing else, not for selfishness, just ask for power in order to full fill gods good plans for humanity or for the good of mankind. Anyways that's all for now!
blessed be!

Speaking from the point of view of a person who has a spirit companion, it is not always best. They have to have an energy source. Some get it in different ways. But some times they feed off of your energy. You can also feed off of their energy so that can go hand in hand. Every now and then you can feel a little weak because of them feeding off your energy. Other than that I love having Ariel around. He is my best friend. Good luck :)

Demons big no i removed one from somebody doing harm under the control of one look at the gods or your ancestors b.b

true they can feed off of your energy or emotions, spirit, or body. but sometimes you can give them a offering that gives them energy like something it feeds off of or energy it feeds off of, like if you borrowed energy from the gods, or if it desires offerings such as whiskey or money it could feed off the energies off the burnt dollar bill or drink the whiskey or use it some how. LOL! I am not a spirit so I don't know what they do with whiskey, It's possible since they have a formless body like air or water they just feed off the fumes of whiskey do to the fact alcohol goes out like a gas. But I would suggest to the person that needed help from a demon or spirit if they have a demon just give it energy borrowed from the gods, that would be the best solution.