I would like to take this time to introduce something that I have come across on the realms. I call it Soul Form. I hear about people asking can I become this or can I become that. Well on the otherside you may already be something.
When the Tree of Life or God began putting life on earth, everything was given a soul. That soul held onto that form. This was a time when dragons walked the earth and faeries played along side humans. On a hunch I put this time ending near sometime between 500 AD and 1100 AD. Some may argue that it happened before that and some after. To this I say that the veil may have fallen at different times in different places. Regardless it did fall and it did separate us from the astral. But not all the way. Our soul isnt an organ like a heart or a kidney but it is still our very core.
When we pierce that veil and travel to the otherside we retain our form. If it is human then it is Residual Afterimage. This means we are used to our bodies and our mind simply puts that image overtop of what we really are. Some see themselves as wisps. While they may be wisps, I find wisps to be somewhat rare. Rather I see this as some kind of visualization. Example: I want to see this so I see this. But some of us see something entirely different. We may see ourselves as the Zero Chicken or the Wolf or a Fairy with wings. In my experience most people are sealed, fairies or elemental of some kind.
Soulsight is the ability to pull the curtain that separates a person from what they are to peek and find out. It takes a great deal of dual meditation and cant be done without the person physically and psychically present (and not traveling). You peek around the veil and see what they are. Some questions can be asked to get more of a confirmation of what you see.
IE - I came upon a person, a Wiccan, who asked me to look. At first I thought I was looking at the stay puffed marshmallow man. But then I realized it wasn't marshmallow but ice cubes. Through a series of questions asked of the peeked-at, I was able to confirm that I was talking to an ice elemental.
The sealed. When looked at with soulsight these people appear to be a lock. I see an actual padlock. These are the closed minded. They actually seal themselves from the other side. Those that don't believe apparently can't go astral. *shrug* makes sense i guess.