I get jealous easily at my boyfriend...
And I really really try not to care if he's talking to some other girls...I'm so afraid to lose him that I get insecure about myself... And that is not the real me... I am not someone that gets insecure because my boyfriend talks to other girls....But lately I've been that jealous girlfriend...and I need help to get back to the secure me...without the mixed emotions...and confusion..cause this all is just hurting me...and of course my boyfriend who gets sad when he thinks that I don't trust him...I do trust him ...but I get insecure easily
is there some spell that I can do to heal myself and get back to the secure me?
Perhaps take a look at what it is that is making you feel jealous. Work on that aspect of you. It is normal to feel this way at some point during a relationship. Just don't let it become a problem. I would also suggest you make yourself some kind of charm to wear to help you feel more confident.
Actinolite is a great stone for this. It helps you to be more open and receptive to things, and encourages balance and patience. It is also said to help push away ones own negative thoughts. If you have trouble finding the stone, you could make your own charm for the same purposes. Bright blessings :)
Don't worry chanel, I'm actually the same way... I am a jealous girlfriend. I haven't done any spells, but I know what triggers it, so I usually meditate whenever I start feeling insecure. Actinolite sounds like a great idea too. I don't have that gemstone, so I usually use hematite when I meditate on it. It helps strengthen the relationship.
Let's take a look at the definition of "Jealousy;"
1 - jealous resentment against a rival, a person enjoying success or advantage, etc., or against another's success or advantage itself.
2 - mental uneasiness from suspicion or fear of rivalry, unfaithfulness, etc., as in love or aims.
3 - vigilance in maintaining or guarding something.
.... So do you feel this way when he spends time with other guys? If not, the issue clearly isn't that you resent that his attention is elsewhere. With this in mind, if you only mind him being with girls, not guys, your probably do not REALLY trust him.
It's entirely likely that your conscious, rational mind knows that he won't do anything wrong. The unconscious mind, the part more directly controlled by emotions and driven by instinct, is probably much less trusting.