Hello everyone, i am sure that many of you already know me, and more to the point how stubborn or otherwise unpleasant i can be. It's been brought to my attention that my personality is abrasive at best. I would like to formally apologize to those I have insulted or otherwise hurt. I don't mean to be rude but I often find it difficult to communicate my thoughts in a manner that is pleasant to read. I'll put in a bit of extra effort in both replies to forums and in the chat to prevent further issues but I would also like to ask for a bit of patience with me. If I am irritating or otherwise unpleasant please feel free to let me know. I realize that I am not the most accomodating person and again, I am working on fixing that. Feel free to talk to me and ask me questions. I know a lot of information and am happy to share. I just ask for respect and patience and I will do my best to reciprocate.
I don't find someone who is passionate about his believes irritating. Okay maybe you were rude to others I don't know. But I really believe you have knowledge and you are motivated to learn more. it's good to see people here who actually know something more about magic apart from the mods and coven leaders. I was glad to meet you and not annoyed at all by you.
Re: An apology.
By: Nekoshema / Novice Mar 13, 2012
Post # 3
well it's nice to admit faults and work towards fixing them. unless i can tell a direct attack on me or my beliefs are mentioned in a post, the medium is the message, you can't hear the persons tone. i'm a rather sarcastic person [i'm working on it too] so sometimes i'll type a dry remark, but it comes off sounding like i'm angry or insulting, so i always have to type " [sarcasm] " at the end. blessed be.
Asatruar. I think your a cool guy. And very knowlegable in what you do. Dont take yourself as an ass (@ mods, ass as in donkey) Because if you can see the fault in yourself, i think thats very open minded and wise. And to fix it for the sake of others aroundyou, thats noble. I wish you luck in over coming this fault. And in your spiritual journey as a whole.
Re: An apology.
By: AmberLover / Novice Mar 13, 2012
Post # 6
Darling, everyone can be stubborn and unpleasent. I know I have my moments, and a lot of times some people can really make you riled up on here. You shouldn't blame yourself.
It's good that you're noticing the bad things and working to fix them, as that's something I've always tried doing. This post automatically makes me have a lot of respect for you. It's okay to be rude every once in a while, so don't beat yourself up every time. If you like you could mail me, I'm always willing to help. I wish you well. :)