Hi, I'm pretty new on here, though I've been lurking a while. When those more knowledgeable than me recommend only using magic for good, I didn't heed the warnings. I have been trying to control another person against their will for my own gratification. I'll tell you what has happened.....I am now completely obsessed with said person and all I will end up doing is damaging our friendship aswell as losing my family.....long story but person is husband's best friend. I see how manipulative and wrong it is, and I am ashamed, but glad I despised but any more harm was done.
so a big thank you to those wiser and greater than me!