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Forums -> Other Spells Discussion -> I'm a little confused.

I'm a little confused.
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Post # 1
I did a break up spell for my best friend to make the guy she likes break up with his girlfriend. I found one online that was really easy to preform, it said it took six days for the spell to work. Well, on the sixth day I had gotten really very sick. I don't know if that meant the spell worked or if it didn't. Please help clear things up for me. Thanks in advance
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Re: I'm a little confused.
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Post # 2
Well... my question is did they break up after the 6 days?
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Re: I'm a little confused.
By: / Beginner
Post # 3
Ok MisaOnyx...here's what happened.

You did a bad thing. You tried to break up a guy from his girlfriend. That is not nice, or right, or good. It's selfish. Why are your friend's feelings more important than the guy's? Or his girlfriend's?

When you cast a spell for selfish reasons, frequently it will backfire. I am not saying this out of judgment...just personal experience.

If you are going to use magick, I highly suggest you take a closer look at what you are doing before you do it. If it is selfish or hurtful (your spell was both), it isn't a good idea to use magick to do it.

There are plenty of magick users who will disagree with me. That's fine, they can feel free. I am saying this because in my lifetime I have NEVER seen a selfish spell like that work without backfiring. Not ever, not even once. Without fail, they have ALWAYS caused negative side effects...and usually they don't work.

That sounds like what happened to you. If this guy has a girlfriend and he's happy with her...LET THEM BE HAPPY!!! If he's not happy with her LET HIM DECIDE THAT!!! What gives you the right to make decisions for someone else? Nothing gives you that right...not magick, not infatuation, not love...nothing.

If your friend really did care about that guy, she would not be trying to meddle in his love life. I've loved men who have been with other women...know what I did? Nothing. There are literally billions of people in the world to choose from. Why hurt people just because you are too short sighted to see that?

I hope you have learned a lesson from this. I understand why you did it... I did a selfish love spell myself once, a long time ago. Guess what? It did not turn out well. Please try to keep this in mind and don't delude yourself into thinking this kind of thing is ok. Too many people do that.
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Re: I'm a little confused.
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Post # 4
ah you didnt do a bad thing, its only bad if you feel guilty about doing it, what your expreiencing is coinsidence.
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Re: I'm a little confused.
By: / Beginner
Post # 5
Always plenty of people willing to say being selfish is not bad. Heh... not me.
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Re: I'm a little confused.
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Post # 6
Sara is right. There is a thing called the Rule of Three. It basically says that what ever you cast comes back at you 3X. Yes some people will disagree and tell you to curse people until their teeth fall out and they turn to dust, but it's not really wise to pay attention to any of these people. Try casting a spell that wishes your friend with better judgement of men and more successful relationships. She just might not even want this guy and go for someone better and you'll receive some very good mojo in return. :)
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Re: I'm a little confused.
By: / Beginner
Post # 7
Thank you Merlin007. I was expecting to be royally flamed for my opinion. I probably still will, whatever. The truth needs to be said.

By the way MisaOnyx...there's a better type of spell for your friend's situation. If you want to help her, try a spell designed to bring her true love to her. It may or may not be the guy she currently likes. That kind of spell will not make you sick. Actually, performing magick for selfless reasons always makes me feel like a million bucks.

Even if you don't believe in karma, it's a scientifically proven FACT that nice people are happier, healthier and overall have better lives than selfish people. Look into it sometime, there are LOADS of psychology studies that show very conclusive evidence. Or if you don't feel like reading scientific documents, you can just take my word for it.
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Re: I'm a little confused.
By: Moderator / Knowledgeable
Post # 8
This thread has been moved to Other Spells Discussion from General Info.
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