If, I were to have wishes that come true, before helping out someone else, I would need to take care of myself first so I wouldn't be in any precarious situations that life throws at one due to not being prepared.
So, my very first wishes would be in this order;
Protection from hate, harm and, misfortune.
Success in what I embark and endeavor upon goals.
Prosperity so I may be affluent enough to turn my attention elsewhere to whom one may need my assistance, including world peace.
Yep, this is what I would first wish for.