Arachne? the Goddess of the spiders, i love the tale behind that goddess, mine is Nyx.
Nyx is a great goddess, but she is not for everyone. Try finding a list of goddess' and God's , try finding one that stands out to you ,then study her/him and if you like that goddess/god Try a trial run. If you aren't as compatibly as you thought, try again.
Meditation works, just a goddess or god can't tell you that there your's if you don't know there name, because you may think your just hearing jibberish :P