So i broke up with my ex bf a month ago, thinking i would be fine living w/o him and he was not paying that much care to me anyways, so i protested by breaking up with him and ignoring him whenever i saw him. i was immature and spoiled and he wasnt much better either so we constantly had fights.
I have been very very sad about it but i was getting better
I saw him with a girl, very close together. My friend told me that she has seen them together too. From the way they were together i could tell that they were more than friends. I know him too well on that.
i was sooooooo jealous&mad&sad and i just suddenly want him back like CRAZY. i simply cant stand the thought that he is with another girl.
I do think that girl is just a rebound becuz its only been a month since we broke up, and it was me who broke up with him.
over the month i've grown up a bit and realized alot of mistakes i was making. I think if we give it one more try it will be better.
But how should i take him back? would he still forgive me and want me back?? Can a spell bring him back??? Help me.
What you are feeling (as you said) is jealousy, it is a passionate emotion but very temporary in most situations. Now think hard, if you two get back together, it wI'll be the same or worse as before. Even if she is a rebound, he is taking the steps that you should be taking. In the words of LdyGry, you should however, take time to yourself, at least a month of "me time" without any dating. Then take a month for each year that you two were together.
Also, spells like this, would just complicate things. Making matters from bad to pure hell. My honest advice would be to put him out of your mind and life, let these feelings pass, and let everything the was negative about your relationship fade as well. Learn from the mistakes you made in this relationship and learn re lessons that are to be taught from them. THEN start to go out and date again.
At -numbers- I believe in usig magic to harm none but again, freewill is a tricky subject, most magic in one way or another interferes with freewill and other than that, trying to force your beliefs on everybody around you makes you look like the bad guy. Ease up on those who think more loosely than you.
Re: I need help
By: Spectator / Beginner Jul 25, 2011
Post # 6
Mary, he is your Ex-BF. You made that choice, and you have to suffer the consequences for what you have done. You said it has been a month, maybe he has got over you? Coming from a lad, I wouldn't say it is a rebound, because he would've gotten a girlfriend sooner. Your mind is trying to develop reasons to why he's with another woman when the answer is staring you right in the face: He's got over you, he no-longer wants to have a relationship with you.
The best advice I can give is that you become friends again. There's no need to keep two peices of string un-tied.
and i dug my key into the side of his pretty little souped 4 wheel drive carved my name into his leather seat!!!!! oh sorry i was thinking out loud this reminds of that song by carrie underwood called "before he cheats" but mary if i were you, i would say to him, ''nice knowing ya or buh bye!'' and walk away.
but you shouldn't mess with freewill. i know a spell that will make him pay. its called ''three nights of hell'' you will need a black candle, a photo of your ex and some matches. you put the photo underneath the candle and light the candle. you can find the incantments if you search it.
So you're suggesting torchering him for 3 day instead because of his lack of compatibility with her when she's the one who broke up with him That's just wrong... Want my advice learn from your mistakes grow up and move on....