My friend has this annoying habit of taking the easy way out of problems by ditching people instead of manning-up and facing the music when he does something wrong. Is there some spell or charm that can counter-act this behavior? I want him to feel what he makes others feel, and for him to understand how hurtful it is to be discarded by someone you care about. Mind you, his vanity is an issue. Whenever he is "hurt" he never seems to learn from it, but instead goes into this "poor pitiful me" mentality. Is there anyway to overcome that obsticle as well?