Well said draggy once i again i clap loudly when you speak cause you make much sense as always. However i will like to add my share to this thread, now i do understand that you are fed up of the stigma and the negativity.At least for where i live people know witches are ordinary people but just still have that negative stigma that "we are evil". From what i see magick is nature vice versa this a spiritual medium to which we express our devotion to earth along that same line i don't think any physical appearance show will do anything at all cause its just that...PHYSICAL! many of us have various looks (skin tone,hair texture ,eye colour etc) and we will not be appealing to all who look at us anyway thats a given known. If you really want to show how beautiful we are then we show the purity of our hearts and minds.Be the light on the mountain so that all who look upon you will sought to zealous after you, we must bring back the traditional creative and structural energy in everything we do so that no one will be able to ignore the fact of what we do,thus bring back mother earth to the people on a whole wide scale.
If you ever want to overcome this battle then you have to move away from physicality cause the battle was not there in the first place, we need to touch the hearts and minds of those around us and the time is now, more than ever people's hearts are already opening that i know for sure even though there are few hardened ones not ready yet so to conclude my two cents let us bring back what we stand for: SAPIENTA UT VIVAMUS BENE- Wisdom for good living