:-) I like the bowl of sugar.
I've often seen that like attracts like. If you're angry with someone, you transfer that anger on to them (sometimes through the vibes you give off)and it comes right back at you.
Here's what i would do... On a waxing moon, after grounding and centering, I would pick a pink candle and light green candle, annoint both with rose oil and as I light the green candle I'd say something like - "The spirits/angels of healing and this green candle energy come together to soothe and heal the anger, pain and anguish between X, Y, Z and me. I would then light the pink candle and say something like "The spirits/angels of love and friendship along with this pink candle energy bring love, companionship and mutual compassion between X Y Z and me. I would then shut my eyes and visualise myself being surrounded by these three people. I would visualise pink and green light bathing all four of us. I would visualise a warm, loving smile on each of their faces. I would visualise them hugging me. And as I open my eyes, I'd say, something like Harm to no one and love to all, this is my wish, this is what I want to call.
Good luck, customise it. Dont follow anything word for word.