What exactly is the problem with your pants? Being a mother of 2 I can understand where your mother is coming from if she thinks your pants are not appropriate. If they are to small/tight, to big/baggy, your underwear is sticking out of them, they have too many holes, they are stained, or they have something inappropriate written on them. As a mother and you being only 13, she has every right to tell you that you can or can't wear a piece of clothing. Perhaps it is time that you grow up a bit and be the age you are. By now you should understand that you are a teenager and with that comes more responsibility but not total freedom to do, wear, and say whatever you want.
I agree, I'm 13 too but I'm very mature for my age because I've had very big responsibilities from a young age which is worse than a pants argument. But I dont understand why she'd get the police involved.
I am also a parent. I am a single mother of two daughters, and I cannot understand why she would admit you into a hospital, called the police and threaten to send a 13 year old to court over a pair of pants.
There will always be a power struggle between teenagers and parents, especially around your age when you feel like you need more independence, and your mother still sees you as an adorable little child. This should be the time for discussion and conversation, maybe going over the rules of the home and showing your mom that you can handle more responsibility of your own.
Resorting to magick spells for something that you may be able to handle on your own between the two of you is going to the extreme.
Is your father in the picture? How does he feel about all of this?
While you may think it's about pants, odds are it's not. The pants were probably the last resort in a string of other issues that you either don't see as an issue, or don't want to admit is an issue. Unless of course you stole the pants/money to buy the pants in which case, yes. That is the issue.
Simple fact: You're 13. Your mother does have control over you, has every right to call the police on you if you are breaking laws or are out of control and has every right to admit you to a hospital if she is worried about your mental health.
There's a solution to the tyranny. Move out on your own, get a job, pay your own bills and live life the way you want to. Since you can't do any of the above, you are dependent on her and need to accept that. You are not an adult. You are not recognized as an adult, do not have the same rights as an adult, and if you insist on be treated like one anyway...you need to act like one.
pwalls (sorry if I spelled it wrong, going off memory here)- I suspect from the way this is written, dad isn't around. That's probably a contributing factor to the issue.
To everyone who keeps up about the pants, I think what he was saying was that his mom made that issue up, he never really did anything, at least not fighting over pants. In short you were all adressing a problem that never existed in the first place, and completely failed to help 1 bit.
Ps nightflight, you may have actually gotten it, good for you
Well, I'm not sure, but if I see something I'll let you know. And I'm sorry there have been people on this thread telling you to "grow up" and things of that nature and generally being mean and disrespecting you. That is certainly not necessary, especially when you are asking a valid question and asking for help in a situation that deems help necessary. Posters shouldn't start throwing daggers of judgment before they even know the full situation, but even someone half-listening to what you posted should have seen that there was something wrong with your mother's behavior. Perhaps, giving a more detailed account of the events would help.
This comes from a sorcerer on the internet about candle magick:
Pink = less intense than red and more romantic in nature. It has plenty to do with friendship and good vibes than with heavy love. It's also the color of hospitality and good feelings thus can help rectify relationships with others. Somewhat protective as well.
Blue = peace and tranquility. Use this when pink fails to patch things up. The basic color of communication & psychism.
(me again) I've even, while having problems at home, drawn a picture representing the home with pink and blue crayons.
