good lord ppl...she is asking for help not a lecture..and by the way the law of karma does not come bck three fold..that is the wiccan rede...anyhow i found a spell that worked for a friend of mine:
You'll only have to do this once, but it has to be after midnight. The moon will hopefully have a waning gleam and you must face the east upon opening the circle. You must again recite a special chant while placing a bead or pearl inside a piece of black cloth. Place the pearl/bead in the black cloth - add your angelica herbs--tie up tightly in the string until you have wrapped the pearl/bead entirely in the cloth. Dribble a bit of wax from the candles on the final knot you tie. Then throw the small package away far from your home.
"I cast a spell asking , I now ask the favor of having the spell removed. I understand to take back a spell means giving up something of my own to show my spirit is true and my intentions are good, I give this pearl/bead from a necklace I own. I transfer the spell into the and render the spell dormant. No harm may come from the cancellation of this spell. No further power shall it have. This is my will -so be it."
Place the pearl/bead in the black cloth - add your angelica herbs--tie up tightly in the string until you have wrapped the pearl/bead entirely in the cloth. Dribble a bit of wax from the candles on the final knot you tie. Then throw the small package away far from your home.
Silver RavenWolf wrote in her book "To Ride A Silver Broomstick" A great spell breaker. I'm not sure if it'll work on curses, but you can give it a try.
"If the spell has backfired (And sometimes they do) and it continues, you must break it.
Choose the first Saturday of a full moon or on the full moon its self. Use one white candle and once black candle for balance. Your props should be of a protective nature; There for, you would use a amethyst, Apache tears, or smokey quarts for gemstones.
Write a spell to undo what you have done. Be specific. For example:
On the Eve of ____
I cast a spell and
The effects I created
I must now quell.
May the spell be lifted
And Now I be gifted
specifically with ______.
Be assured that the spell does not last longer than thirty days, unless you have put a limit on it, or performed ur during a special astrological correspondences that have imbued it with a ti8me of its own."