Hi evry1, I decided to come to you guys for help. I have been practicing for six years and often find myself in a conundrum on how to find solutions to problems that are not neatly written in a grimoire or spell book. I have one of those problems now. I was attacked (unprovoked) by a rival. Her bf (my ex) wants to return back to me and he has told her I don't love you. She has even went so far as to lie about being on the pill to get pregnant. He still wants to leave. She is aware of his love for me and I believe she has herself or had a family/friend put a spell on me. Which I have a feeling that since her bf is constantly around and she works all the time she most likely had someone else to do it. After the bf told her mom that he didn't want to be with her, I had a "hot foot" spell placed on me. After I broke the spell. I burned a candle to attack back and the signs of the glass showed resistance. Several candles have done the same. I have often had visions of myself and my family coming under harm. I have a feeling that whoever cast the hot foot spell is protecting her. What spell can I use to break the shield of protection? And please don't spend me msgs about why I shouldn't fight back. I am one of those Wiccans that do not believe in turning the other cheek. It's just not in my genetic make-up :)
and also let me say this....it was hell to wake up one day feeling like my stomach was on fire. my foot was burning off and on...and i felt like i had eaten 10 buckets of hot pepper. it burned to even talk. and i had to deal with all this and work a grueling hospital internship. all bc she didn't like being rejected.
well that would hard to do. my ex, the girl in question are from africa. her family/friends are still in africa. i prob will never know who the actual caster is. my gut feeling is that she is discussing me with her family member/friend and they started casting spells. i forgot to mention that at one point my ex and i started fighting like cats and dogs out of no where right around the time of the hot foot spell. we have a child together, this nonsense has to stop. i may not be able to get to the source behind the casting, but i can get to the girl but i feel that she has a protection spell covering her butt. i want her to taste a little bit of what i've received. i need a spell to break her protection.
Easy really. Program your energy to find her weakness.. Don't worry or even bother with candles.. waste of time in my opinion. Program.. direct and send probing energy at them to find their weak spots.. them slip in... I do not condone violence.. but self defense is fine.
what you can do as sariel was saying is energy manipulation which is the main key in defending your self. now i will try to go a little more in depth.
To start with cleansing is a good start to clear the area of negative energy produced by wicked hexes, which in turn will help to negate the effects of the enemies spells. I advise to burn some dried white sage (You can by sage smudge sticks) around the home visiting every corner and smudging your self . Also accompany your smudging exercise when smudging yourself with a white light cleansing.
step 1: Visualize your body while burning the sage
step2: See the brightest white light you can imagine, see it dark spots in your body as effects of any negative energy, do not logically create an amount of spots, let the intuition create that amount for you. Visualize the light bobbing up and down and about the body , making the dark spots vanish, see your whole aura become brighter and your energy system get healthier
Next step after cleansing is Shielding, you can read my post shielding 101 for more info on it.
Shielding is when you create energy walls to protect you from enemy spells,
And finally the offensive part, getting an idea of the type of spells was used against you is the best way of knowing how to deal with it, but even if you don't know you can still break the spell.
What i will say to do first as a preventative measure to prevent more damage is to bind the attacker. You don't even have to know what they look like even though that will be a plus. You simply focus on the enemy while doing a binding , this restricts them from using their magickal talents.
And following up you can write up a incantation to attack back, learn to "push energy" and fight back. anymore questions feel free to mail me.
Also moste (if not all. But some can be harder to deteckt) spells/curses. Have a 'trail' specialy energys. Aldo to know what your looking for might be another deal.
But by 'folowing' the 'energy/force' trail of the 'curs'. And combinding it with the one you do know. (the reason for the problems) and any usefull info. (all this is somthing you can do as you cast. Or direck the energys)
will make the conection on your work stronger. Also in the progress you can putt up shielding against the 'casters'
one usefull way to use this. Is by using a mirror. Where the 'trail' are being focused into. And you can 'aply any reflection spell. Or even a carmaspell. And place the mirror faced down. Or with somthing covering it.
(it would help if you se the mirror as somthing between you and the 'atacker' )
this can be done witout a mirror to. If you can gett a firm 'visualizasion on it. As you work with energys. Or as another form of shielding.