I need help.I have a friend who has a very possessive husband. He recently went out of town for business and set up video and audio recorders to keep an eye on her while he was out of town. They have 2 small children and she does not go anywhere since the one is sickly and cannot go out much. I am looking for a spell, candle preferably, to help ease his possessiveness. He is not physically or verbally abusive at all either. Any suggestions?
What Purple said is correct, his action is a form of abuse, however his intention may not be to harm. She could try talking to him about it, maybe see about getting him counseling(they do have couples counseling now so she could go with him), and if all else fails she could drag him onto a talk show. Just not Jerry Springer if she wants the relationship to work. Dr.Phil could be a good one.
Re: possessive husband
By: Drakkenwitch Nov 28, 2009
Post # 10
I agree with nevermore..she needs to take a long good look at her situation and get out. they promise you the world and make it like you can't live without them but being that i've also been in this situation before i can honestly tell you that he will not change and he will get worst as time goes on..she needs to get out and find a battered shelter to temporarily stay at till she can get on her feet and provide for herself and her children..Please tell her don't wait till it becomes violent to finally leave because in most cases it can turn out very very bad...Trust me...