I need to get this out:
Elements Are Not bound by birthdate or the stars.
There are many elements, which cannot be categorized to birthdate, since, while the elements follow the cycle of the earth, they are not really controlled by it.
Spend some time around each element and you should feel your comfort levels with each. The more comfortable you feel towards the element, the easier it should be for you to manipulate the elemnet. This make take some time so do not become frusterated. In the end you should be able to train yourself to manipulate each. The best advice I can give is when you find out which element you are most comfortable around, work with that one element for awhile. This allows you to gain confidence in your abilities as well as making sure you can truly manipulate the element to your fullest capabilities.
how exactly could you control an element because i strugle. im comfterbul with water but if i could control water would i be ablt to put a drop of water on the table and move the water without touching it ?sorry if that sounds stupid