this subject is pulling me in so many different directions and i dont know which one to follow. long story short about a year and a half ago i did a dream spell to see who your soul mate was...well i had the dream and wrote it down and about a week later i met this guy. i guess u could say that we both agreed with the whole soul mate thing and we were together for about 6 months before he started having some problems in his life and we had to break up. well the break up was hard so i finaly made my own ritual that i called to heal a broken heart and in it i said whats ment to be will be and if he belongs with me, than bring him back to me. it worked for 2 months not one thought of this boy...then he e-mailed me to tell me his dad died and how he threw my pentical necklace out. the point is...now he is back but he is engaged to another girl. he wants to be friends, and i told him that i would always be here for him. its just i KNOW that hes making a mistake. i've had dreams about things that i belive will happen if he marries her. i'm starting to think that i have to just sit back and let the events unfold. this whole situation is making me physically sick, and something deep inside of me wont let him go. i just really dont know what to do. is there any one who could help me?
i was thinkin of that spell about 2 weeks ago... but was torn between 2 mind in regarding whether i would have been able 2 handle which ever out come came out of it!!!
But unlucky is right, ya soul mate is not always ya lover or spouse etc... i have a friend whose married, but she seems so much more intuned mentally with a friend of hers... friend being female, and they r like the best of friends!!!
Emotions always get controled. And StormSong, you just have to wait, just be the ride and your true love or (if that guy wasn't your soulmate) soul mate will find you. Just enjoy the ride, which is, enjoy life to the fullest.
I personally do believe in soul mates, but there are indeed different types of soul mates. Some soul mates u will undoubtedly share many things with them but ultimately be only friends with a very distinct love that is different from intimate love. When it comes to the idea of a soul mate in an intimate relationship type love, I do believe that everyone has one. When it comes to love and magic, I am doubtful. Love is a very powerful and dangerous thing, it is a double edged sword. I am not meaning to sound to harsh with what I am bout to say. The dream u had which was the result of the spell can b a very dangerous thing to follow up on. It might have been that u had the idea of love and that the other person was indeed ur soul mate so deeply engrained in ur mind that u willed it to work using nothing but the determination of ur beliefs to do so. When u once again did another spell it was again ur mind that was the main driving factor. Of course, ur mind was not the only one in charge, it was just the part of u that gave u the drive and ur personality,general characteristics, and hopefully heart did everything else. Just be careful when u attempt to follow up on ur dreams, be sure to interpret them in depth first. And if u get nothing else from this experience, remember this, everything truly does happen for a reason. ( I know it is a cliche). Also, keep this last thing in mind as well, magic functions in a realm of its own unique reason, and it is because of magics use of reason that a quote that compares reason to the human heart still holds true, even with magic "The heart has reasons, which reason does not know" B. Pacal