What kind of advise?
I figure that not caring is the best way to stay normal and to keep what you have. Girls call their guys too often and strangle them with their attention, and then they worry, stare at the phone...none of this is normal behavior...it is best for insecure folk to imagine that they are princess or something to avoid getting the 'my love is an immortal god omgzx!111' complex. Generally the best advise I have heard is 'Stop trying'. As in, stop trying to look your best, be nice and elegant and divine and blahblah. Just be who you are, no matter if it isn't movie-star like.