I am needing some guidance on a difficult tarot client I have. While I do not read professionally, a mutual friend of mine has been paying me money to read for her. And she is definitely a repeat client and she always want to dig deeper into this non-relationship she has with this guy. They chat to each other online and she loves him but he doesn't seem to love her. She always wants to know things like why does he continue to talk to me, or what is this month going to be like for us, why did he stop talking to me for three weeks, how does he see me, etc. There is also something.
She also gets others people to read her cards as well and compares notes all the time. Really it ends up being more of the same.
I really feel like there is nothing really valuable she is getting out of tarot and needs to give this guy and also myself some breathing space. Once I tried talking to her about this and was blunt in saying, he does not want you. In my opinion all her other questions are a waste of time and she will be forever teeter-tottering seeking closure and seeking hope. She backed off for maybe 2 weeks but not she is at it again.
How can I gently, compassionately tell her no more readings?
Well you should tell her the tarot cards doesn't always give the right answers it's up to her to make it happen if he didn't talk to her for three weeks maybe he needed space sure i don't know much about magic but people I know alot about he is either he needed space from her the way she is acting if she keeps up like that guy might leave her for someone else's or he is probably with someone already.
I'd think just telling her that there's nothing more she can gain from the readings, and that you cannot in good conscience, continue taking her money for a service that is no longer of benefit for her.
If telling her nicely doesn't work, you may have to forcefully shut it down, and outright refuse, though hopefully it doesn't come to that.
I have never used tarot cards or given readings but it seems to me that they are basically a guide or an aid to the other parts of life. It sounds like she's too deep in her attraction to this guy but doesn't want to put in the work it takes to cultivate a relationship and would rather be told what could happen because she's afraid he will end whatever communications they have. Tell her that the readings are only a guide. The type of answers she's looking for would have to be found by direct communication with this guy. If she can't talk to him now how will she be able to maintain any type of relationship? And by comparing your readings with others, she's being disrespectful to you because you aren't telling her what she wants to hear. Tell her it is taking too much out of you and you just don't want to do it anymore. If she is paying others to do a reading for her too then she just not believe you and keeps going to others until she hears what she wants to hear. God bless
