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So last week on Wednesday I asked one of my friends, who also practices magick, for a reading because I was going through a few things relationship wise. And I don't believe the future is set in stone. I believe that it can be changed and fixed and that it's ever changing. I wish I could remember what cards I got and I'd tell y'all but all I remember is that she basically pulled out bits of my soul that I normally keep tucked away. And she and another witch came to the conclusion that I'm going to go through a break up with the man I'm with right now. I've been with him for 4 years of my life. I love him. And I'm not leaving him. The reason I'm posting is to ask if you get a reading from someone who knows what you're going through does it distort the reading because it's too personal? She even told me who she thinks the cards are representing. Does that effect anything? She did a 21 card spread. It's the one that starts off with three cards that represent personality.