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Hello everyone! I need a suggestion for a spell.

Someone close in my life has gotten themselves into a grave situation and are not realizing the full repercussions or that it is affecting more than just their life (such as mine and multiple others). Myself and others have tried talking to them, giving them advice, attempted to get professional help, have been helping them throughout this whole issue, and in one case, one of us was quite blunt about what needs to be done, but the person who created this mess is continuing self-destructive behavior that is only going to drag us down with them unless we do something drastic, like cut them out of our lives forever.

Basically, they are being immature, short-sighted, petty, selfish, and all that lovely stuff.

Does anyone have a spell idea that will help them gain clarity, take the steps needed to improve the situation, and be more mature about this in general?