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Does anyone know of a really good site with correspondences listed by Intent?
I've found one or two, but they seem somewhat incomplete. Eventually I'd like to buy a book on it but for now I've been scouring the internet to find a crystal/stone that works for persuasion. I've found some herbs: cardamom, cloves, frangipani, and a couple others I can't remember off the top of my head.

Little background: I'm basically trying to persuade my ex to calm his crazy down enough to send me the key to our storage unit, as opposed to being a spiteful asshat and denying me access. It's all in his name but I pay it every month and nearly everything inside it is mine and the kids'...and it's literally all we have left so....kind of important I get him to send me that key. :/

Much thanks!! C: