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coincidence, fate or destiny???

hi, so im new here, but i have an urgent urgent question!!

so i know this may come out wrong, but im married and have a daughter.. but i think i like someone else, and i have strong feelings that he might feel the same way, but hes holding back because im married and hes engaged too..

i didnt know whether this is fate or coincidence, but i wanted a sign to see if me and him were meant "to be" i suppose, and i saw him that night, we didnt talk (we have a bit of history).. since we didnt talk i didnt take that into consideration, second time i asked for a sign, i see him try to add me of fb, then he cancelled the request.. then i asked my djinn and spirit guides again for a different sign, i saw him and we talked for almost an hour it was so surreal but i knew we were at that place and time for a specific reason, as i have known him for 6 years and only recently started to see him. (there have a been a few other times hes popped in my life randomly but im trying to keep this short)

im so going out of my brains, i think i really like him and i think its mutual but i need to know for sure.. i was going to do some kind of truth spell but i dont want to "force" it u know.. i understand the laws of peoples free will and how bad it would be for me if i interact..

should i just see what happens, or just have this in the back of my head forever until i see him again.. btw before people bite my head off because im "married" hes very possessive, argumentative and abusive.. i suppose we only stayed together for my daughter and at moments we have 'good times' but i just feel soo let down on my behalf that i just dont feel complete!!

OMG this is a long post im heaps sorry, i usually do my own "spells" and requests through meditation but i needed peoples opinions on this!!!