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Growing up I watched my mom light up candles for different reasons. Well I have grown up and found my self struggling in life and I found myself doing the same thing. However, I have been having problems with my candles . I have lit a total of 5 glass cased candles and 2 of the 5 have broke. Lately I have been practicing a sort of prosperity, health,and guidance self-made spell. only that the last two times my partner and I have been using one candle for both of our inquiries. I have been reading up on candle residue and other things but I am not sure I understand the one question that is still lingering in my mind. I understand that the black smoke residue indicates struggle in my environment, and a broken glass indicates the braking of negative vibes sent my way. But what about the flame still burning after the glass has broken and the flame being really high. (I observed that in the last 4 candles the flames where very low)
Is this happening because it is two separate inquires for one candle ?
can it be that what my partner is asking for stands against my list?
if anyone has anything to add to my inexperienced conclusion, please comment.