hi guys, an ex of mine has moved house thus trashing my belongings that meant alot ro me, im so angry and upset, is there any way i can rerurn them back to me somehow, i kept asking him before over and over and got same answer, wait till i move. and now its all gone
It's possible you may simply have to accept the losses. Many people have had to do so. When I left my ex, all I had was what I could fit in the car (and my cat lol). I left behind mementos from my entire life, things from passed relatives, heirlooms. Sometimes breakups are simply rough, to put it more than simply. It's not easy, but it's life. But people, generally, are resilient. We heal, we move on.
As for spells, I'm sure there are some "return to me" types of things for relationships that might be reworked well enough for belongings, and you could do something with a mind of your things -- if he even still has them -- becoming a thorn in his side, and a constant annoyance, and his only relief is to return those things to you.
I have walked in your shoes more than once and unfortunately I have always had to just let it go and start over. Very hard when things mean alot to you but they are just that things, One thing no one can take is your magick inside yourself.
I generally recommend dowsing for finding lost things. It's a pretty good divination tactic, whether you use rods, a pendulum, or something else, but it does require finding them yourself. It's only really meant to lead you to what's lost.
In this case, I agree that you may simply have to accept what is gone. I've been there too, and it is really tough, but sometimes moving on is easier afterward too.
Of course, there are spells to return a lost item to you, but I find these to be about as useful as luck spells wherein they occasionally bring something to you that you weren't expecting, but rarely the object you are looking for or in a way that is useful.
I'm sorry I couldn't offer more help. I wish the best of luck to you, and just know you're not alone in it. I think everyone goes through something similar at least once in life. It gets easier.
