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Cam doing a simple bonfire spell help heal a person I know that is grieving?

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Re: To heal a person from-
By: Moderator / Adept
Post # 2

Grieving is a natural process that we all go through when we have suffered a loss. It is something that we need to do in order to move on. While it is painful to watch someone you care about being sad, they need to do this as a form of healing. It's not a good idea to shortcut the process or the person will never heal.

Instead of a spell, could you do something mundane to help this person? Normally I'd suggest doing things to help distract them for a bit such as go out for lunch or going shopping or to a movie; but Covid makes it hard. What did you do with this person before they were grieving? If any of what you did then is still possible to do now that might be a start.

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I don't really understand why people say "Don't use magick as a first-resort". I mean, magick's a skill like any other, why can't we use that skill to help us? Ultimately, the gods are much more powerful than us. If they know that the spell won't help or could potentially harm you, they'll probably try to stop the spell from working. And since the Gods and Goddesses are much more powerful, your spell will likely fizzle out. I don't mean any offense, but why do people say to not use magick as a first-resort?
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Re: To heal a person from-
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There are three sayings I like to use to explain it... though they all mean very similar things.

"One may have their head in the clouds, as long as they keep their feet on the ground."

"Place one foot in the ocean, but keep the other on land."

And finally,

"Fetch wood, carry water.
Gain enlightenment.
Fetch wood, carry water."

The point of all of these axioms is that spiritual practice is not a replacement for physical care and needs. Some things don't have shortcuts or ways to side-step.

Grieving is an emotional process that requires time, processing, and support in coping. If one wants to help a friends then Instead of working a spell, give them a hug and be there to talk. (And if it comes to it, a kick in the pants to get out of a repeating cycle.)

Besides, the energy of genuine care and time is a magic all on its own. And the sharing of a few wise words and a timely reminder that one is not alone has more direct healing power than hiding away in your sacred space and making wobbly hand-waves.

In the end, it isn't about saying 'don't use magic'. It is about saying 'there is more to life than magic. Don't neglect the proper tools for the job."
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Re: To heal a person from-
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@Spirit76
Thanks for explaining :D
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I've been a shoulder to cry on and have gotten her ice cream (Her favorite) but she seems to not be lightening up. I fear that she might go down farther than before. She refuses to do anything so, I really wanted to try and help.

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Re: To heal a person from-
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She may just need time. When did her grieving start? People go through phases in the grieving process until they reach a resolution where it is no longer as painful. If her loss happened recently it may take weeks or months for her to work through this. Best thing right now is to just be there for her whenever she reaches out to you. She might not be ready to move on quite yet and one or two actions on your part isn't going to make her sadness go away quite yet.

If you could give us a bit more information we might be able to help more.

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Around 3-4 months. Her dad committed suicide, and it really affected her greatly. I've offered to be there no matter what.

I don't know what loosing a father feels like as I never had one in my life, but I know what loosing a parental figure feels like. I have been there as much as i could be considered I have work and other things as well.

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There are many ways to heal emotionally depressed people .
My suggestions :-
Give her time .
As time is the greatest healer .
Her wounds will eventually vanish overtime and she will be okay .
Let her cry and express her grief .
As tears come out,the grief goes away.
Don't stop her from grieving . If she keeps all her pain inside her and hides all her feelings , she will become susceptible to depression .
I suggest you , give her a shoulder to cry .
If her condition is too serious ,only then i recommend healing music . Positive vibes can be good for healing and easing depression and grief. They don't heal actually but they stir a hope in someone and then the person gets healed himself/herself.
Here is the link to a music i use to heal people :-
https://youtu.be/Leob7Fv1ibM
On listening this she may feel uneasy at first but will be fine after some time.
Hope this helps you and her :)
Blessed be!
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Re: To heal a person from-
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Post # 10

I will also suggest that if her grief is so severe that it is having a significant impact on her ability to move on with the process of living; such as her not being able to go to work because she finds she can't leave the house; she may need to seek a professional grief counselor to work through it.

Losing a parent is really hard, especially if she was really close to her Dad, but as others have said, time does heal the worst of the pain.

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