I performed a love spell. Please note that I was not thinking clearly at the time for a number of reasons so no bashing and no unnecessary explanations of why I should not have performed it. Anyways, the spell was well executed and is working. However, I used a charged rose quartz necklace during the spell and have been wearing it. I've noticed that when I wear it around my neck, as opposed to wrapping it around my wrist or ankle, I receive A LOT of anxiety and sadness. When I wear it elsewhere or just carry it, I feel these emotions less. When I don't wear it, I don't feel these emotions. Can anyone explain why this is happening? I am not a novice caster but have never experienced this before.
Love spells are very emotionally demanding both to the caster as well as the target. Whenever you send these energies to the universe, they effect you as well one way or another, and sometimes it can even turn out in a way that you end up obsessing with your love target even more and feeling a lot of stress due to the work.
My guess would be that the necklace absorbed lots of the energy of the spell, and wearing it in the same area as you did while performing the spell gives the energy a strong effect on you. That's why a lot of times it is recommended to get some cleansing after a spell work so it won't have traumatic emotional effects on you. If you see that not wearing the necklace is good for you, then don't, but also be sure to get some cleansing done.
Thank you. I've noticed the energy has leveled out into something more pleasant and less intense. I just have one more question. Since the day we met, we have been able to read each other's minds and can send messages to each other. I feel this surge of energy when it's happening. Never in my life have I experienced this with anyone else. This has been the case even before the spell was performed. Since I performed the spell, I've been receiving mixed messages from him, usually saying he loves and wants me and then saying no and then back to wanting me. I feel both resistance and want, like yin and yang. I've never once had a spell play out like this before. Does this indicate that it's working?
From my experience the target tend to freak out a little bit from the energy you've sent him, he gets confused why he is feeling this way. It should ware off sooner or later and then you'll probably get the full manifestation of the spell