So I did a reach out/reconciliation honey jar last fall when my ex and I hit a rough patch and it worked (he wanted to get back together). Unfortunately, I had to leave town to be with family for a couple months so we didnt really get a chance to actually get back together but we stayed in touch and everything was fine when I got back into town last month until 2 weeks ago. Hes claiming hes been seeing this other girl even while I was back (not a dealbreaker because were in an open relationship) but I know thats not true since we have mutual friends and she had a boyfriend up until a week ago.
I left the jar behind since I was worried about it breaking during travel so it hadnt been interacted with by me for a while so my question is should I keep working with this jar (its the same intent of him missing me/wanting to work things out) or should I make a new one since itd be a new reconciliation (this time he told the other woman wed broken up even though he hadnt discussed it with me)? Also do you think I need to do anything about her (I dont really believe theyll work out knowing the two personalities but)?
I would suggest you to burry the first jar (traditionally that's what you do after the target is back, otherwise things can go wrong). Before making a new one I would do a break up work or banishing work on the other girl, and then a reconciliation jar. Playing safe is always for the better, if you ask me.