help anyone ?

Selena based on your own posting you indicate that it is ok. It was stated earlier that a wrong has been committed, so are you advising that we all turn the other cheek so folks can continue kicking you. Look around you folks, karma isnt punishing anyone, otherwise all of our politicians would be dead within a week.
Nature respects balance, though nature alone will not set things right.

I did not indicate that it was ok and i made no mention of karma.

Here is the deal though...

This post isn't about what we think is right or wrong and pushing our views on others. So it isn't a matter of opinion. It is about helping the practitioner with a question they asked instead of telling them what you think they should or should not do. We are talking about practices to answer her question and really shouldn't be dilluting this thread with a clash of views.