Re: Ex told people I'm pagan By: Brysing Moderator / Adept
Post # 12 Oct 22, 2014
What I meant was that one should not be broken hearted at 14; even though I know it can hurt! At that age I was singing professionally, and it attracted girls like you wouldn't believe!
All I mean is that a lad should not be too down hearted at losing one girl. There are others!
I don't think his issue is the loss of the girlfriend, just that everyone knows he is a pagan.
But you are correct Brysing. sadly I am not and have not been as lucky as you in that department!
People will come and go in your life, those people will most likely be a mixed bag. I have not told a past partner of my spiritual practices as it never effected them in anyway.
I live alone, and will do for the forseeable future, if I was to ever share a house with someone that is when I would tell them.
However, I have of course left a few hints here and there and have also been upfront about me practicing meditation- I am a psychology student and one cannot ignore the benefits reported in literature.
Luckily I also live in perhaps one of the most non-religious countries, and so most people would not really care if I said I was pagan- so what?
Some people are Hindu, others Buddhist and more Hindu. If a person cannot accept you for who you want to be and wishes to change you or hurt you in any way out of maliciousness, they are not for you.
Well I'm sorry to hear that, but keep your head up, and don't be ashamed of who you are, or what you follow.
Your on your path for a reason, and you can't let someone destroy your faith, and hide. We may be afraid, but remember you have the god's with you, and somehow the world, as well as they and you will work it out. If someone said something, so what? She wants to bring you down, and you can't let her!
Don't care what people say, and act true to yourself. This may sound corny, but.. this is a lesson to learn from, and a test to see if you can hold. Without misery, or obstacles you won't learn much, or anything.
Don't care what people think, keep your head up, and accept the fact. If people ask? Tell them the truth, if people wonder? Explain! People will accept soon.
