I agree with the others, casting love spells on a specific person is a form of mind control, which, in my opinion, is harming them. The others are right with it making them love you against their free will. I wouldn't do it if I were you.
My question is this: Why are people so hell-bent on using magick as a cure-all to every problem or obstacle life throws at them?
Seems rather pedestrian and wasteful to use it for everything.
While I utilise magick in many ways and for many ends, it to me is best utilised for deeper things, like understanding the universe; Connecting with Nature; and altering chance and probability to a more favourable degree. I do not waste precious time and energy trying to win back someone who doesn't desire to be with me personally. The extent of the magick I do utilise in regards to love is simply to draw someone who may be interested; I am not a proponent of binding. It seems such a selfish thing to me to alter the paradigm of free will.
Use psychology; use creativity; or better yet, expand your circle and meet new people.
I am not desiring to offend, nor sway one direction or the other.
Magick is just so much bigger than a simple tool to be used in such a plebian way.
Ive tried other options i.e talking to the person in my situation and im still trying to do so to no avail. He is a grown man heavily influenced by everyone around him. I know how much of a good person he is when hes not under influence of others, which is why ive been trying to find a spell that actually works or a GENUINE (not shouting just enphysis) spellcaster that is willing to help give my ex a nudge and remind him what it is about me he loved in the first place....... also why i was wondering if anyone knew of any genuine spell casters thst maybe able to help me cos im at my eits end ive tried spells myself to no success