Re: i am in big problem By: Lark Moderator / Adept
Post # 5 Jul 30, 2012
If you're old enough and mature enough to be married then you are also old enough to stand by the choices you've made. Your mother may never like any girl you want to marry. Some mothers try to cling to their children long after their children are adults. If you're married it's time to stand up for yourself, get a job, move out of your mother's house and start your life with your wife. This doesn't take magic, it just takes a bit of gumption on your part.
And, tragically, this situation is not uncommon. And get out of it is not so simple. Therefore, it makes more sense not to bring the situation to such passions, and try to solve the problem at the beginning of the conflict. Do not try to run away from problems. She - like a snowball - will only grow if it is not addressed.
your mother has a husband?
And, if it stands alone, the problem may worsen even more, because she has no personal life, and the whole meaning of life is the son and the house. Before you she was hostess, and everything was done by her and the way she wanted. Son was obedient and loving. And suddenly there is "this ... Believe me - the reason is not in you. So will any wife. And after the birth of his grandson the problem of jealousy can manifest itself in a different plane: in-law, which has generally not able to give birth to an unconscious attempt to take on the role of mother and take the initiative in raising the child.
Most conflicts occur because there is no clear idea of where to draw the line between the role of MOTHER
and the role of wife. . Mother-in-conflict, and not realizing that the married son is responsible for the welfare of his wife and children, but is not responsible for the welfare of the parent family. So to help parents must be proportionate to the younger generation capabilities and agreed in his own family. The phrase from the Bible (in today's society is not only men but women) "... Therefore a man leaves his father and mother and cleave to his wife: and they shall become one flesh ..." says the husband and wife are one flesh FAMILY that they themselves are jointly responsible for the quality of family life, for income and consumption for the upbringing of children.
I advice I can give to your wife:
let her mother-in-my mother calls
it should be praising her as a mistress, her culinary skills. If your mother a good cook let your wife take her recipes, or ask her to teach cooking, washing, ironing. grow flowers. your mom will love it.
and yet, let her make her nice gift. Your mom is important to feel needed, so let your wife asks her for help. This will make it a pleasant thy mother.
and the best thing is if your wife talk to your mom "heart to heart." This is a chance for them to communicate with each other to their own views on many important things.
dear but i want to live with my mom too my only wish is that my mother will accept my wife and my marriage and will not abuse her and her family all the negativity will get finish
@joshmethew nobody can really help by doing a spell for you if you really need a spell you should more than likely make one uo with your own energies these are the most effective but its allot easier to have not used a spell that would more than likely wear off like deoderant in a dance cluc, so you should ask your mother and sister why they hate her and if this doesnt work because of confidence issues then try a spell that makes you more confident or one that will make asking your mom and sister easier
